I have done various craft-like activities since I got out of high school… some years none, some a fair amount. I used to be a carpenter’s helper and got some skill with those tools. Later, I learned the basics of crochet, but it didn’t really take. I like making nets, but there isn’t much I’ve found to do with them. Only so many net bags needed. I got into target shooting about 8 years ago, and have a pretty decent reloading setup, but haven’t been able to go shooting in a long time, so there isn’t much use for the bench. During a school break this fall, I asked my wife to try (again) to teach me to knit. For some reason, it really grabbed me this time. As I hoped, it is enough different from the kinds of mental activities I do at work and in my school classes that it really feels like a break.
I have found that I can knit very well on the train and while waiting to feel sleepy at night. I can’t knit particularly well while watching TV, but I’ll bet that after I’ve been knitting for a while I will.
Knitting feels like a good thing to do. I find that I’m picking up the skills pretty easily. My first in-the-round and cable projects worked well, and I’m hoping to keep adding skills. I don’t yet know for sure what sorts of projects I’ll be interested in, but I have a better feel for those that don’t interest me (complex colors, vast blankets). My current limitation is boredom. If the project goes on too long, I want to give up.
I also am working through a certain amount of embarrassment. I’d like to think I’m beyond worrying about what other people think of me, but… I’m not.





I don’t mention it much because I feel silly, but I have been having issues with knitting as a female task as I have been fighting for neutrality in my job (web developer/producer) and in my life and to teach my sons that there are no jobs that are gender based (e.g. we all cook, we all clean, we all knit, we all…) beyond what is literally gender based (e.g. pregnancy) and even then…
I’m working on my skills from the perspective that no skill is a waste of time, but still, sometimes, surrounded by women, and seeing others reactions that I’m knitting, I struggle a little.